Sometimes coming out isn't never ending

[noracharles]

My mom made me really happy today.

Sometimes I feel like I have to come out to her over and over again, because it's so often she expresses some unexamined heteronormative assumption about me and my life.

But today I was telling her a story about a female friend and "her darling" - boyfriend/girlfriend is not a gendered word in Danish - and without any hesitation or sign of thinking it over or making an effort, my mother replied referring to them as "two young women". As it happened, my friend is straight and her darling was a man, but most of my friends are queer, and it feels wonderful to know that my mom understands and accepts that on an unconscious level now.

Comments

[calvinahobbes]

We are completely agreed. I hope my comment above didn't give a different impression.

[aquaeri]

I wanted to make sure - like you, I can find myself nitpicking details (the ad isn't strictly speaking homophobic) and miss explicitly stating the big picture: it's an offensive ad.