This. Some days, I don't want to read shady consent fic of any kind. Some days it's triggery. Some days it isn't. And sometimes I actively look for it. Yes, our culture at large is involved in it, and it's a sign of rape culture that it exists in large swatches, but... fannish jargon is precisely to communicate what is in there, and what isn't, and lets the reader decide for themselves, something our culture at large doesn't do.

Can I ask what prompted this?